You hate yourself. You hate anything that is a reflection of your errors or shortcoming. You would rather remain in a empty dry place fore
ver where no one can speak to your flaws so you may heal.
In a world that celebrates isolation, it is rather difficult to turn the hearts and eyes towards anything positive. The world around us is crumbling and nothing looks like it is getting better anytime soon. Sadly,this negative atmosphere has spilled into our personal lives and overall relationships with not just people,but also finances, work and overall the will to keep moving forward in life. Though life has become difficult, having this type of limited mindset will increasingly hurt people and the ability to build anything positive. But what prompts this type of response from people?
HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE
While the saying is relatively cliche, it is true. Look around your immediate friend circle and evaluate; you will find this to be common: There is a least one person who has a self proclaimed "beef" with a number of people. Maybe these people failed this person in one area or another but one thing remains; a hurt person will hurt more people. If you are constantly finding pain in every relationship that you are in,you are the common denominator. People sacrifice friendship founded on a deep common love based off fickle meaningless baseless arguments birthed in disgruntledness and fueled by limited blinded rage. Whether or not you are this type of person, or have a friend like this;neither are worth throwing away.
FEAR of the Unknown
I am often times reluctant to open myself up to the idea of new experiences especially with new people. Past relationships with new people that don't workout often times fuel the pain of the future.Holding onto the pain of the past will never heal a wound. Holding onto the pain will only nurse the current wound and you will never recover.Every past experience will remind you of a previous one. Every direct deposit will remind you of the money you don't have; every new relationship will remind you of the one that didn't work out.If you sit in constant fear of the unknown world, fear will put you in a place of paralysis where you will never find success.
The world sits at a place in time where fear is all the craze. We should instead,move into a place of stability within our beings and spirits so we can have joy. How does this occur, by seeking to find peace with those around us.It might be difficult but it can be cultivated.
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